When a courtship lasts only three months, it is not surprising or worrying, because maybe, in this there were certain factors which influenced the relationship to come to an end. However, it must be analyzed when the breaks are repetitive.
If your case is like this, you need to pay attention to what we are going to tell you, and if not, in the same way you have to consider this because it might help later; since it is of the utmost importance that you can take into account every aspect.
In spite that it is said that three months of relationship is a short time without great importance, you have to know that it is relevant, because it is in these three months when the couple begins to experience moments of trust and mutual acceptance; however, when we break up with someone it comes an emotional and mental disorder process because of those feelings that still are housed.
This lack of control will be manifested in dreams, in thoughts, comments and other actions that, obviously, will determine that there are still live roots deriving from the other person.
Also, mistrust will arise with the next person who will be able to come, because it will be kept the previous experience, which led you to prepare in an unconscious way your emotions till a certain time. Believe it or not, once that repeats the behavior of something, it makes customary in subsequent events that have the same similarity.
In addition to this, cause in you low self-esteem and depressive states that in future will judge you in frustrating and conviction moments. You will feel that you’re not happy or able to maintain a loving relationship.
If you have already lived one or two ruptures, it is likely to be repeated again in a third and even a fourth time, and although time passes, you will remain in the same vicious circle.
Consider that you are yourself, as well as you read. In spite that a part of your environment does it, at the end of everything, who pays the sadness and discouragement is the same person affected.
The ideal is to maintain a relationship where each one is willing to fight, experiment, and grow together as a couple; surviving bad and good moments, but always willing to persevere. We wish you good luck and we hope it can be very useful for you. ¡Success!
It is complete true, if we are not willing to grow as a couple it will never last.