Travelling as a couple can be a real challenge, which can undoubtedly test the relationship. Planning a trip where both are happy and in accordance with the ideal. But, trying to get them to agree with what activities are going to be carried out, the places they will visit and even where they will stay, is not an easy task. Therefore, we bring you some tips and tricks so that travelling as a couple does not become a nightmare, but an unforgettable experience.
What are the tips for travelling as a couple?
If it is the first time you decide to travel as a couple, you should be very aware of what that means. It is not only the fact of having a good time and enjoying in the selected destination. But also trust, tolerance and respect. In addition, if you do not yet live together, you should consider that you will live with your loved one 24 hours a day, which is probably not an easy task.
As we know that if certain considerations are not taken, this trip can be not very pleasant, let’s see some tips for travelling as a couple, that will make you enjoy it in every way.
Including your partner in planning
Travelling as a couple is a thing of two, worth the redundancy. Therefore, you should consider the opinion of your partner in everything related to the trip. From the budget, the destination, to the duration of the trip. Both must agree on what they want for their trip and what they will do to carry it out. If the other’s opinion is not taken into account, that trip is likely destined for failure.
There will be fights and disagreements, the opposite of what is expected from a trip as a couple. It’s about spending a few days together and at ease with the person you love. So negotiate the place, the maximum price and the type of trip you are going to undertake; reaching an agreement is the key to coexistence.
Remembering that it is your partner, not your copy
One of the things that we usually look for in a couple is that they can share tastes and hobbies. It is an excellent way to strengthen ties and strengthen the relationship. But, although they have things in common, their partner can also have differences. That is good because, as they say in the variety, there is the taste.
These differences can represent an opportunity to do individual things, to take time for themselves. At that time, they may decide to read a book, shop, go to the spa, or watch a series for a while. Yes, doing individual activities doesn’t seem like a good plan when travelling as a couple. However, these little moments can serve those who are overwhelmed with being with someone 24 hours a day.
It is important to note that the fact that they take that personal time does not mean that they have forgotten the partner or that they do not feel comfortable or love their partner. Remembering that respecting personal space is super important and very healthy in any relationship.
Clearly establish the budget from the start
Very well they say around there, “clear accounts, they keep friends” and the same applies to couples. Talking about money is perhaps one of the most uncomfortable topics, especially at the beginning of a relationship.
So, to avoid any inconvenience with the budget, the best thing is that when planning to establish what is going to be bought or paid, who pays what, how much everything costs. Also, it is very important to be very clear about your own budget. This will undoubtedly avoid problems. Although it is a difficult subject, it is best to speak it, so that it is a successful trip and money is not a reason for discussion.
Do not exaggerate with the duration of the trip
If it is the first time that you are travelling as a couple, it is recommended that this trip does not last more than three days. This is super important and even more so if they do not live together yet. After spending a few days travelling, they will enjoy to the fullest and they will not risk that I do not go as expected. This time is enough to get to know each other more or to live together. And, if they want more, they can start planning the next trip, but knowing that it is a success to travel together.
Planning activities with your partner in mind
When planning the activities and places to visit when travelling as a couple, it is a good idea to do it thinking as a couple. But, respecting their individualities. One strategy is to make a table with three boxes. Two selected to place the activities that each one would like to do, according to their tastes and preferences. The third box will be for activities that both want to do as a couple. Establishing a daily schedule for these activities, including a mix of the three boxes. Good plan! Don’t you think?
Don’t plan too many activities
According to the above, it is likely to exceed the number of activities to do each day. If you have decided to take a short trip, it is best to relax a little and not plan too many activities. When making your schedule or itinerary try to leave a free space, allowing you to have time to relax.
This will be very useful in case you need to rest, because the day before was very strenuous or because of the party the night before. So, instead of going on an excursion as planned, perhaps they can stay on the beach or rest in the room.
Be flexible
When travelling as a couple, what should least exist is the figure of the “leader”. Regardless of who took the initiative of the trip or who has planned it. Both are equal and have the same right to express an opinion and make decisions. The most important thing is to agree, not try to go above the other. Finding that point where you both feel comfortable. Also, it is very important to be more flexible, to talk with the couple to find that middle point, where the other is not left aside. Communication on a trip is essential.
Trying not to blame each other in case of problems
The most common thing when travelling as a couple something bad happens, such as theft or loss, is to blame each other. So a lot of time and energy is wasted searching for a culprit and arguing. Which can end up weakening the relationship. The most recommended in these cases is to calm down. Trying to think rationally to find a solution to the problem, if you have one. So always remember to stay calm. If you are having a hard time doing it, give yourself a space to avoid discussing or making matters worse.
In short, travelling as a couple can be a romantic and unforgettable experience. To able to strengthen ties between the two and make it more durable. But, if some recommendations are not followed, it may be the opposite. Taking these tips into account and you can be a little more confident that the journey will be wonderful.
ALFA