On this occasion, and without any pretension, we want to share with you some tips for the perfect first date. You probably do not need it, but as the popular proverb says: “He who does not take advice, does not grow old”. It is never enough to learn about more techniques before that first date.
You will find the key to having the perfect date, the trick to have a second date and everything you need for your man to fall for you in hundreds of websites. The truth is that no matter what method you use, everything depends on the attitude you have on that day, so that your first date goes as planned.
The technicality of social networks today has brought changes in our emotional and sexual life. Practically, in interpersonal meetings, interacting is kept to the minimum necessary. Hence, the diatribe regarding how to act on a first date in modern times.
According to Art Markman, a psychologist at the University of Texas and author of the book “Intelligent Ideas,” romantic dates require two things: willingness to meet and energy. That is, 100% attitude towards this new person you are about to meet.
Experts in the subject say that only the first eight seconds are necessary to make a good impression on others. For that reason, the message you send out in the first instance is essential to make a perfect date and start a new romance.
Among what you should do on the day is to be self-confident and empathic. That way, you will have the attention of the person you are with and that way, you will be able to share enriching experiences with the aim of making the moment pleasant.
If possible, avoid dominating the encounter and let the conversation flow. You could talk about culture, sports or hobbies that both may have in common. Likewise, avoid asking stereotypical questions that could put you in an unwanted situation. Remember, the first date is exploratory.
Just like what happens in confined spaces such as elevators or public transport, the spatial relationship between people can be decisive in a first date. For that reason, try not to make way too much visual contact, as it could be counterproductive and taken as a confrontational or dominant attitude, according to a study published on the website “Psychological Sciences.”
It is essential that in addition to the attitude you have that day, you create empathy with that special person. One way to achieve this is to imitate some of the person’s gestures, that will make both of you enjoy your time. Act naturally and do not keep trying to impress.
Keep a relaxed body posture, be straight and clear in your questions and answers. Otherwise, he could see you as an insecure woman. The first kiss? Rejecting or accepting it is often controversial, everything will depend on your sixth sense. Use it, it is never wrong.
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