All people have their qualities and defects, but according to the zodiacal signs, some tend to emphasize some more than others in relation to other signs, noting that some are more proactive, cheerful, hardworking, constant, or more serious, formal, creative, etc., or some defects are more pronounced in some signs, such as jealousy, rudeness, stubbornness, selfishness, passivity, among many defects.
In this context, when we talk about rudeness, pessimism and selfishness, specialists tend to name some signs as the most likely to suffer from these ills, which, in our opinion, will not depend exclusively on the sign, but on the birth chart, which determines the level of spiritual evolution, as well as the nodes and ascendants play an important role. However, in this article we are going to focus on describing the most spoiled and selfish signs, and that they may also be affected by these defects due to having other deficiencies such as exaggerated pessimism.
Most specialists in the field agree that Aries is the most spoiled and grumpy sign of the zodiac, he is characterized by walking always complaining, despite spilling bulk energy and looking like a positive person, but if that negative side comes out, he can easily become a selfish, spoiled and pessimistic at high level. Due to this, he is above the rest of the zodiac signs, earning this title for his constant tantrums and mood swings that can be unbearable in extreme cases, to the point of generating strong conflicts with the partner, family and in any environment where he performs.
Another one that has the potential to be grumpy and spoiled is the seemingly happy and adventurous Sagittarius, which is at the top of the list of the most spoiled, grumpy and short tempered due to his exaggerated nature and for being very temperamental, getting easily angry if someone contradicts him, to the point of becoming violent verbally and physically. In this way, he hides behind his sociability and sense of humour, a whirlwind of rudeness capable of wreaking havoc in any kind of relationship.
However, he tends to see life in a very calm way and apparently he does not worry much about things, especially if it is about matters where others are the harmed ones, that is, he does not worry about the problems of the people that are around him, which makes him a selfish person in many cases.
Likewise, people of the sign of Cancer, born between June 21 to July 22, are usually mentioned as individuals who tend to be very negative, nostalgic and often melancholic, because they live much of the past, sometimes becoming people unable to focus on the present, resorting to a belief system that part of their self-protection by not trusting others not to create themselves false expectations and then be affected emotionally, as they are easily disappointed due to that typical pessimism which can make them unbearable.
That same load of negativity can make them try too hard to get things because they think that things will always go wrong for them, distrusting themselves and others. If they add a touch of rudeness to this, they can become isolated beings, who in turn tend to be selfish.
For these reasons, people of Cancer sign have the tendency to get angry easily, highlighting their irritable nature that makes them react untimely to seemingly simple situations, which complicates their negativity, and becoming the victim by taking things to the heart very much and taking them to the personal plane.
Virgo is another of the signs that is characterized by being pessimistic when things do not turn out as planned in detail; let’s not forget that he is the most perfectionist sign of the zodiac and that he becomes very fussy due to his exaggerated demand. If this feature is combined with pessimism, it can be a very complicated combination, when he tries to take the lead in a certain group, which can cause a lot of friction among the members of the group, even more if he finds some hyperactive Aries or Sagittarius who tend to be carefree and would laugh at his demands.
Consequently, people of Virgo sign can become very temperamental and spoiled when they take out that pessimistic side of their personality, leading to conflicting situations with their bad mood; but if things improve and take the course they want, then all this spoiled and bad-tempered reaction immediately passes on, becoming affectionate and friendly as few in the zodiac.
Let’s move on to Scorpio, that sign that is very passionate in everything he does, but that according to experts in the field, can have a hidden pessimist when he insists on confronting the truth in an obsessive way, whether that truth is cruel and it affects him enormously, showing a brave and nonconformist spirit that although it sounds very good, sometimes it causes him lots of disappointments, then becoming spoiled and irreverent in those moments of great pressure that takes him out of his box.
Scorpios can be spoiled and selfish without having to face situations in which pessimism is present, since jealousy and contradictory situations can generally make them spoiled, reacting angrily and expressing disagreement in the worst way. They can be very optimistic and happy, but if something does not go well with them or someone is opposed, that spoiled being comes out that becomes pedantic and authoritarian.
Therefore, it is better not to provoke a Scorpio because he will show his bad mood and rudeness to the maximum, so it is usually considered a very grumpy sign as he is often complaining, and if he is on that wave everything bothers him, earning the qualification of one of the hardest signs of the zodiac.
If we talk about the grumpiest and spoiled signs, we could be in the presence of such a person if we have contact with a Leo, who, despite his strong character, is not a very moody sign; but his little patience and his eagerness to be the centre of attention of all makes him become spoiled and selfish in situations when his pride is hurt. On the other hand, if they touch their limits, the Leos can be very arrogant and hurtful to those around them, so it is not advisable to make them angry.
But bad humour and rudeness have a weight bearing in the people of the sign of Taurus, that, in spite of having a very calm, disciplined and relaxed character to the point of being considered as very cold, gets angry when he is contradicted and he can do it in such a way, that he explodes like a bomb made with rudeness and aggressiveness together, in addition to being considered one of the most stubborn of the zodiac and even dangerous, since he is able to touch the limits of verbal and physical violence.
Regarding pessimism, we must clarify that Taurus is generally not pessimistic, but it is not that it represents the tree of optimism either, which makes it a sign of normal attitudes towards its life prospects, which can go on levels of normal positivity. Of course, Taurus does not behave selfishly, he always shows solidarity with his peers and is spoiled to extremes, but usually when situations become very complicated to be handled.
Another sign that can become pessimistic and spoiled is Capricorn, and although it is usually very focused and shows himself as a responsible and very structured person who hardly gives in to pressure, he fills himself with such negativity when he feels overwhelmed and reaches his limits which we must clarify are high, that he may become moody and in some cases may be spoiled. But he hardly reaches high levels of rudeness because he is disciplined and balanced by nature, making him to quickly take up control again of his emotions.
In this way, Capricorn people focus on what they do, their work, their projects, and they generally avoid getting into others’ lives, not being selfish at all, but not allowing anyone to get into in their life. However, they are usually very controlled when claiming these intrusions.
As for people of Pisces sign, there is a tendency to visualize them as very negative, so much so that sometimes they leave aside, in a very fast way, opportunities that the environment gives them because their pessimism and lack of self-confidence prevail in them, which surrounds them in a negative vision of life, limiting and stopping their chances of success, which affects their mood, showing bitterness. However, they are hardly grumpy or spoiled, because they always walk in the clouds, characterized by their concrete way of doing things.
In short, although we have described the most spoiled, pessimistic and selfish signs, we must note that this does not necessarily have to be so in all people of these signs, or that the signs not mentioned do not have a touch of these three defects; everything will depend, as it was said at the beginning of the article, on the degree of spiritual evolution of the people and above all of their capacity to control emotions, because we can be spoiled, but if we are aware of it, we will take a step forward to overcome situations in the which we must show serenity, respect and good sense.
Likewise, pessimism can be improved as we connect with positive energies of the same environment, so it is advisable to surround yourself with evolved people who have good vibrations, who guide and correct us, and if we let ourselves be helped, we can become positive beings without sequels of pessimism, which obviously is not the best companion to succeed in life.
ALFA