The caress, the soft and delicate action executed by sliding our hands, with the intention of achieving physical contact with the people for whom we feel empathy, or who we love. Caresses not only express the sense of touch, you can caress with just a single glance, with the deepest sense of your being.
You can transmit it conditionally, what is directed to feelings, thoughts and actions, the unconditional, which comes up with the simple fact of existing, and can be positive or negative.
Feeling caressed is so important and necessary, that if you do not have them, people decide to receive other kind of caresses. Of course, these will be negative for their emotional, spiritual and psychological growth.
Caressing is an art, and if its physical contact with others is rewarding, and if you involve your mind, body and heart, you will feel loved or wanted, will let you feel love by others.
Sexual caresses frequently occur in romantic friendships, these appear naturally in teenagers, who not give regularly speeches full of feelings to someone they like. The caress is an action that you perform to communicate emotionally, but this goes beyond a kiss or a hug; which is not to get to sex.
Caress cannot be identified as malicious, in fact, in the marriage is one of the best experiences that lead to the intimate relationship of couples. The real problem of getting to the caress, is that they have the firm intention to prepare you to reach the intercourse. That is why when you exercise it, practically you find closer to the starting point, without being able to give free rein back and forget what you think.
New generation of teenagers often say and do induction things to the girls, so they will participate in the caresses, outlining words like: you’re the most beautiful woman, if you love me you will allow me to touch you, you’re the only one who understands me … and this is precisely what the girls want to hear. But the question that arises is, why do they think this? Simply because they need to feel loved desperately.
The worst reason in which many teens fall, to accept the caresses, and participate in sexual intercourse, is because they want to feel appreciated, or even worse, because my friend does too. No matter entering in the weak play of the caresses, what must be understood is that we have plenty of time, and this will give you the guidelines to do what adults can do.
The creator has given you the ability to love, feel and grow; it is natural that a couple feel love, but God’s plan includes limits.
ALFA