Cheating on your partner is a very complex situation. Maintain intimacy with another person is a decision that in some circumstances can damage a marriage. Many women do it and the incident doesn’t have future consequences, but brings them remorse. Should I tell him that I cheated on him? Some experts suggest as a duty within marriage, give out any irregularity that could break the covenant; suggesting therapeutic help to overcome the episode. Others point out that confessing a slip is unnecessary; and that even this could give new life to the relationship.
Women’s Infidelity are surprisingly more common than expected. An investigation by the Department of Sociology at the University of Florence, showed that 65% have had a one-night stand; while 58% of women maintained a long relationship with a third person. “If this is an isolated incident that will not happen again, confessing it only will hurt your partner”; points out the renowned Puerto Rican sexologist Alessandra Rampolla on her website. However, she advise to take into account what make you become unfaithful; as it will give rise to discussions with your partner that will prevent the repetition of event.
Rampolla also say about two situations that require you to confess the infidelity. If you have unprotected sex, since it would be irresponsible not to prevent the spread of any disease. The other, if your partner is starting to suspect and start to check, challenge or investigate your life in search of evidence. It would be much stand in place and clarify the situation. “It’s not easy for a couple to recover from an infidelity, but it is not impossible if they find a professional to help them navigate and resolve this conflict,”
For its part, the Venezuelan psychologist Luis Sanchez, known as Psicofit in the social networks; says on his website that “93% of lovers relationships end up breaking up, few couples go to the plane of the emotional stability after having started as lovers.” Sanchez believes unnecessary to reveal an infidelity, but you should take action on the matter. “Communication, empathy, disagreements, dissatisfactions, among others”, he explains; there will always be a reason indicating a problem that needs to be solve in your marriage.
In turn, he emphasizes that sex has nothing to do with love; makes no sense to put aside your beloved for an adventure without commitment and feelings. Be unfaithful allow us to questioning about what is happening with our relationship, and to elucidate why we want a link with another person; It is better with the help of a professional. It’s about time to forgive an infidelity, and only when the relationship has healed, will not happen again.
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