You may wonder, slippery friend? What is that? Terrific you were wondering, that is the first step to pay attention to what is going to report: a slippery friend is that person that you appreciate, love, and is until her close confidant.
It says itself slippery, because despite having qualities of a friend, has a great detail, which could become a headache for you; Of course she´ll do if you allow her, and it´s because she flirts with everyone! Is not a bad thing, but when trust has broken barriers and has reached the point of flirting with your partner is really a big problem. Yes, flirt with your partner!
With this we cannot assert that really is the case, it is only if you are in the situation of having a friend with this description, then it is necessary to take into account some recommendations, and avoid the breakdown in your relationship.
The fact that you can have a confident friend, does not make her full of trust and loyalty, it is important that you first and foremost know who the person is, and that she will never disappoint you. There are many situations in which couples have broken up because they have just involved in relation to a “supposedly best friend”, which always intervenes when there are problems, and often stays at home.
When it comes to relationships, it is important be careful and do not let anyone get involved in the decisions of both. As a couple, together, you can realize mistakes and go on improving the relationship.
Only you and your partner are the most indicated to face any situation; besides being the communicators of all that happens, to avoid misunderstandings.
However, if you are in a situation where that friend is slipping, and has reached the position of having a lot of closeness with your partner, the best approach is that you can take the situation on the best way: avoid leaving alone your partner, much less with her.
Make no more meetings or gatherings where her “friend” is involved, at least do this until a certain time. Do not mention to your partner what you saw from her to him. It would be a serious mistake, because it creates to your partner a confused image of that person.
Simply approach her and speak, express the attitude observed towards your partner. It is a way to clarify and expose everything.
It is important that you feel confident and sure of your partner. Keeping always in mind that in a relationship the communication is worth much between you, to avoid misunderstandings.
Love, respect and understanding are the keys to have good relationship. Consolidate your union these are the magic ingredients for you and your partner!
ALFA