The secrets of the zodiacal couples of the same element must be based on the keys to overcoming obstacles, because it is easy to handle the positive aspects of each sign when we agree on ideas, thoughts, attitudes and actions, everything is bearable; but the situation changes when the negative aspects of each one emerge that could be similar for belonging to the same element, and even more when we are of the same sign. Next, we are going to present some secrets and keys that you should follow in case you have a partner of the same element.
The couples in which both are of “Fire” element can get along, because they are characterized by being proactive, passionate and fear nothing; their secret is to feed proactivity, and motivate each other in the objectives that they draw. But when the negative tendencies of fire element are present, such as impatience and exaggeration, things can get very complicated, because both could manifest this type of emotions and even adopt an aggressive attitude.
In this case, the key is to accepting the situation first and let it flow without insisting on finding the solution immediately to give an opportunity for both to control their emotions and thus be able to establish effective communication. These differences can be more evident when both are of the same sign (Leo-Leo, Aries-Aries and Sagittarius-Sagittarius).
In the Leo-Aries, Leo-Sagittarius and Sagittarius-Aries couples, they all are passionate, committed, vital, happy and can share many things, but they are equally impatient, tend to be presumptuous, arrogant and / or vain, and like to impose their criteria; and if, for example, Leo takes out his negative side, he will be arrogant, which Aries or Sagittarius will not tolerate since they are characterized by being impulsive and demanding, and although Leo is generous and attentive, he will not tolerate the aggressive attitude that Aries and / or Sagittarius can take.
A situation that can be controlled if both find a balance in their emotions, the secret consists in talking a lot about their strengths and weaknesses and together finding an escape when situations are complicated; for example, performing a meditation together, going for a walk, performing a session of dance therapy, etc., something that takes them away from that struggle of egos that both usually have at a considerable level.
If we refer to couples of “Earth” element, these are characterized as solid and stable, concrete and responsible people, who have much in common and they usually get along, but perhaps for that same reason, the relationship can fall into an exaggerated routine, especially if one of the members of the couple is Capricorn, who is very organized, methodical and compliant, something very positive for the couple, but he often dedicates himself to work and completely forgets about recreation, something so important for a couple.
Even Capricorn can seem cold and Taurus and Virgo are more cheerful, despite the stubbornness of Taurus and the exaggerated meticulousness of Virgo, which Capricorn can handle very well and show control of his emotions. In turn Taurus and Virgo can handle the excess of responsibilities and the supposed coldness of Capricorn, who usually lets himself go when he is treated with love and passion. However, Taurus can be overwhelmed by the extreme demands of Virgo and become stubborn, which makes Virgo nervous and sensitive. In this group the most difficult relationship would be between Taurus and Virgo.
The secret in a relationship between the signs of Earth element is to find a space for fun, including walks in the mountains; contact with nature is vital for these signs to get out of the exhausting and demanding routines that they impose themselves. In general, relationships between these three signs are positive, and the negative aspects can be handled very well.
With respect to couples formed by signs of Air element, we must say that these are characterized by their ease to socialize and relate, but their main challenge is the instability that arises, precisely for that need to be everywhere and nowhere; hence the relations between them become somewhat difficult considering, for example, that Gemini, despite being independent, detached, innovative and negotiating, can sometimes be irresponsible and indecisive, which Libra could handle well, because he always seeks harmony, and Aquarius always walks in the clouds, but if the negative tendencies of these signs come out, everything is complete.
The situation can be complicated when Gemini is irresponsible and indecisive, like Aquarius or Libra who have their touch of indecision, and even Aquarius can be eccentric and unpredictable and Libra can be a fighter a bit. In this sea of indecision, two things can happen: either they all live happily ever after in their world of indecision without affecting each other, or trivial and / or complicated situations begin to happen that they do not manage until these make coexistence impossible.
The secret in this type of couples would be to join efforts to use that capacity of socialization that everyone has through meetings with groups of friends, where they can together share their concerns and nourish themselves with other people’s knowledge and emotions.
Finally, in the couples of Water element, both members are characterized by being adaptable, perceptive and sensitive; they are very good companions; however, they can be very sensitive, which sometimes complicates coexistence. For his part, Scorpio can be possessive and very jealous, and Pisces can become self-destructive and victim, while Cancer can show his mood swings and emotional instability. This combination is not very convenient, but they can evolve as a couple if they manage to control their moods.
The secret for these couples would be based on attending self-help workshops, reading and commenting together information on acceptance, self-confidence, self-control, etc., and sharing evenings with friends and family where they can transmit information that will help them to strengthen their relationship.
ALFA