The person who like you, invited you to come and you are very excited, but the nerves of the first date cloud your happiness: starts to sweat cold and think that everything will go wrong.
Do not worry, with the following rules you will discover that having a perfect date is easier than you think:
- Some people are not as direct as one would like, so if that person says that someday you should go out on a date, take his word; if he says “we should take a coffee one day,” or ” it would be nice to go to the movies,” rather than simply answer “okay” and not let the invitation to the air, as if you wait for that person to be more specific, you risk that he never invited you out or take too long to happen; could respond immediately “there is a new cafe near to my house, why do not we go on Friday?”
- Choose the place you will go. The first date should be in a place where you can talk and know each other well, so the best options are: go for a coffee, go to the movies or eat at a casual place. There you can talk without feeling pressured by others, but also with elements that will help take the pressure off.
- When it comes to choosing your outfit for the date, remember that “the less the better”, the best thing to do is to dress as you normally do: comfortable clothes. A very important “tip” is to use a perfume that makes that person to think of you, even after the encounter.
- In a first date it is normal to be nervous when speaking, but try to be very careful what you say, because this will determine whether the date is a success or not: try not to talk much about yourself. Yes, that may be the issue that you most dominate, but remember that it is essential to maintain an air of mystery. The best way is to talk about other topics, and if at times you do not know what to say, start by asking your partner.
- Limit physical contact. Although what you want is to embrace that person and not releasing him, or give him a kiss, there is nothing better than letting that person wanting more, so if you take his hand, wait a few minutes and then release it.
- If for some reason that person cancels the date, do not get mad. Instead of yelling and say bad words, act calmly and wait him to invite you again. If he do not do it so, remember that it’s his loss, and you save it.
The most important thing is: be yourself and try to enjoy everything you can; that person will fall in love with who you are not just with a person artificially created to conquer. Good luck and enjoy your first great date.
ALFA