There is no doubt that women follow certain parameters and meet certain strict application rules to evaluate a prospective groom after the first date. But what are those details, attitudes and errors that usually determine the success or not of a man in his first encounter?
Dressed to the nines: Women love men newly shaved and smelling good. Nothing of “she must want me as I am,” which is not bad, but he has to take care of the details. Hygiene and personal appearance are critical.
Whit background: You may not have killed anyone, but if you went out with one of her friends you will go to jail. For some, that would be enough to ignore you.
The blatant: If in the middle of the date you note that the eyes of your future beau lie elsewhere than in you, that is, the guy is looking at other women and is not content with what he has in front, he must be removed from your options.
Talking points: It is proven that women hate being talked of engines, wheels and everything about cars, what many know nothing or little or just are not interested. Talks completely overturned towards sports, at a meeting where you are supposed to get to know each other better, could be a fatal mistake.
The jilted: If there is something that a woman will not tolerate is that a man asked her out and ride a melodrama… that is, that all talk will drive you to his ex and how bad she was with him.
Me, myself and I: they believe they are the navel of the world, you will easily recognize and discard him. “I did, I bought, and I am, I have … “definitely” me-ism frightens women. They do not feel comfortable with someone as egocentric.
The loose hand: is of those who believe they can reach third base without having first and second. This is the main reason for not wanting to see him again.
Typical and predictable: poor those who mention the phrase “you are special”, “why do not you have a boyfriend if you’re so pretty?” Because they were marked with a red X for life. Nothing like being original and spontaneous.
Daffodil: never missing that one who believes that he knows everything. Being cocky and conceited tends to create some fear in women. Some think they will end up abandoning them by a mirror.
The stingy: Everything was going well until the character looks the account and start screaming. That is badly seen by women and not because they are interested, but because it is tasteless.
If you identify some of these characteristics and attitudes in you suitor, beware! Better be careful before taking the next step or go out on a second date.
Sometimes is best to say No than to force ourselves to do things out of bore or pity.