The andropause is considered as the second puberty of the man, but in this case, instead of increasing the male sexual desire; this decreases it, like other organic functions. When the man is going through this stage of “second adolescence” often begins a kind of emotional confrontation, in which the feelings of shame and frustration take over the moment of intimacy of the couple. How this condition affects men?
To understand a little better, this natural process is characterized by decrease the normal levels of testosterone (male sex hormone) in the body of man, therefore, this condition influences the sexual performance of the affected, since that those who suffer it do not have or cannot maintain an erection for long. It mostly occurs in men aged between 30 to 60 years, however, the andropause can occur at an early age; by reducing the sexual power of man and altering his psychological state, without affecting the ability to procreate.
In which way the andropause affects my husband? Well, it is extremely important that you remember that this condition is a natural process that is part of the aging of man and in which there will be many changes both physical and emotional. Below we will describe each of those signals that may indicate that your partner is going through the andropause.
In regard to the physical changes: the low level of testosterone will cause muscle weakness, bone loss, reduced sexual potential, decrease in the strength and the amount of ejaculate, dry and wrinkled skin, night sweats, increased cholesterol, among others.
When we talk about emotional changes: we mean that normally this condition affects self-esteem of the person affected, because the man feels unable to please own and partner desires during the sexual encounter, what attracts feelings of anger, insomnia, frustration, shame and even depression.
Is there any treatment?, how can I help him? Among the main treatments are the intramuscular injections, consumption of oral medications and application of gel on the abdomen and shoulders; all these with the purpose to replenish the missing testosterone. The therapies to regulate the levels of testosterone may be an option, however, it is necessary to consider the size and condition of the prostate of the individual, because many of these procedures stimulate the development of cancer.
To help your husband to get through this difficult step, the support and knowledge that you must have in regard to the topic, it is considered essential to the concerned do not have to face this alone. Imagine that if you feel frustrated with the fact that the sexual encounter is not optimal, to your partner have to be aware of this, it is even more difficult to assimilate. The support to your partner will solidify the connection between both of you and therefore be able to enjoy life normally.
ALFA