What motivates a married man with children, to establish and maintain another family at the same time?.Some think that having two women makes them more of a man, more successful, and more confident, but reality shows the opposite. A double-life causes dangerous situations that bring anguish and serious disorders.
The cowardice of a man who does not face his problems and prefers to hide a parallel relationship can cause serious disruption to the whole family and especially the children.
The man becomes exposed to a risk of psychological problems and cause problems to the children he has in both families; which begins as a pleasant and fun adventure can end in a real hell.
Men who enter a double-life cannot imagine all that is upon them, because besides falling in bigamy, they are making a decision that will cause great suffering to the members of the two families, especially the children.
But how do they get to this? Usually these are people who often have an identity disorder and do not know who they are or what they want, so they look for several “lives” at a time, not realizing that they will actually find happiness when they get to know themselves well.
Specialists recommend thinking very carefully before entering a double-life. Those who cause such situations must take into account that in trying to have an affair, not only are they making a serious psychological harm to themselves, but also affecting their formal partner.
Economic problems also come to light in these situations, because they cannot support two families and hide what they do in their time alone.
The key question in this situation is what to do. Psychologists recommend that the decision is up to each couple, because if they accept this situation, it means that they tolerate it and therefore, should take the decision to stay with that person even if not in the most appropriate way.
In recent years, the number of women infected with HIV/AIDS worldwide has exceeded the statistics of men’s. More and more housewives are affected by this deadly disease. There is a lot of infidelity in marriages, accompanied by machismo and other problems such as alcoholism, drug addiction and lack of information. The man goes out without protection, and the wife at home cannot tell him to use condoms.
According to data on the web, homosexuals and prostitutes maintain incredibly low rates of HIV/AIDS infection, and it was found that these groups get more protection than heterosexuals.
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