He cleans, cooks, looks great every day and is very organized with his things. She swears that her partner is simply perfect, but after moving together she realize the living together goes beyond awaking closer and read while they listen music. Few couples argue that it was wonderful to them from the first day they decided to share space; that is why the tastes should been clarified, such as the way of life and the role that will take each one before take that big step. Before to move together it is recommended to talk about several topics that tend to be uncomfortable and are left “for later”, find out them below:
Clear accounts. Experts suggest that it is necessary that both parts discuss how they will spend their money. The income and expenses now will be shared so it is advisable to make a common budget. For example, some couples solve that one of the two will be in charge of basic services, while the other person will pay the market. Also, it is good that before moving together they should talk about their expectations when they will have children and how will split the expenses of the small of the house. Now, they will be partners.
Divide tasks. A recent study concluded that at present 90% of couples share tasks of the house. These responsibilities must be treated before living together and are able to respond to tastes and abilities of each one. The point in favor of the new generations, macho culture tends to disappear, it’s very common finding men who make housework, and the house now is task of the two.
Shared tastes. To escape of the possible conflicts with the couple, it is good that each one has in the housing a space to retreat.
Unhealthy habits. Many relationships when they begin to live together they realize of habits that were unaware of their partner, for example, watch TV tilll late or leave the toothpaste open. They are habits that may or may not affect the relationship. What Is recommended is to talk about the topic which bothers and take immediate decisions.
Limits to the family. Maybe the parents in-law were great at the beginning, but once that you live together, they can start to interfere in your relationship. Set limits with your couple about how will you deal with the family is essential, this includes treatment, time and information to share. Many men are bothered the closeness that maintain the girlfriends with their moms and also, many women feel invaded by the behavior of their mothers in-law.
After that the romantic love fades, relationships tend to go through crisis. Only those couples who are devoting time to themselves, enthusiasm, learn from their mistakes and appreciate the human being without be idealized, will move to the next phase. Relationships are weave day to day and feed of small surprises such as going to the cinema, take a drink on the street or just be alone together in the house. Keep the flame lit!
ALFA