IT IS TIME TO MOVE IN TOGETHER?

Living together is more than living in a house together: is start sharing life with the person you love. For this reason, you should think very carefully before taking this big step in the relationship. Couples who move together for the wrong reasons, are doomed to failure.

Many people take this decision to save money or because they think that this step will lead them to marriage. But the truth is that, if you really want to get married, avoid moving with your boyfriend. He will think “why to marry if we already live together?”.

Some women see it as a test and think that is the way to find out if they will get along together when married. The truth is that if you are not prepared, it does not work. Before taking the big step first think: do you feel obliged somehow?, is what will make the other person happy instead of you?, do you feel pressured by society?

If any of these is your motivation to move, don’t do it. There will be changes in your routine and lose some of the customs that have to adapt to other in common. To live with another person you must be deeply convinced that you really want to take the plunge. This decision has to make you feel excited and happy. If not, do not rush.

The reality is that it is important to know each other very well, know the best and worst of each, knowing the strengths as well as weaknesses. Also you must be able to face any kind of situation or problem and to solve it.

But when it’s time to move in with him? Take note of the following tips to know what the perfect moment is to move in with your partner. Mainly you must know each other. However, it is true that there are things that only come to find out once you live together.

However, it is necessary to have long relationship and who have shared a lot of the time before making this decision. Do not forget also have sufficient economic stability and mutual acceptation, both good things and bad.

If you love and respect each other, and have the above conditions, you can live together; without forgetting that it is necessary to know how to adapt to daily living, some cranky episodes or habits of the other person. Ensure that your lifestyles are compatible. Seem minor issues could prove to be major problems. For example, you hate pets but your partner want to bring his dog to live with you; you do not withstand the family Sunday lunches but for your partner is a “sacred” tradition of eating with his parents.

However, not everything is bad in the domestic partnership. Just keep in mind these considerations and be sure of what you want. Easily you will get used to your partner awaits you with open arms when you arrive home from work or from time to time enjoy breakfast in bed.