There are human beings who never in their lives would dare to steal, kill or commit adultery, but also they find it difficult to forgive. You often been through this situation where you ask: What can I do to forgive? I want to do but I cannot! It is a difficult question to answer.
We find it hard to forgive a betrayal, a lie, a deception. Hard to see beyond our actions if we are at some point one of them. There are people who are victims of injustice. Accused of something and guilty of anything. When you are embraced by the injustice, a mantle even worse cover us: revenge.
For those who makes mistakes, it is difficult apologize, and when they are filled with anguish and guilt complex they are haunted constantly. I know that forgiveness is a difficult task, but who are we to take the law into our own, and justify the unjustifiable.
I dare to you these questions: What kind of feelings motivates you, not to forgive? The love of power, or the power to forgive? They are two different things.
Who loves, breaks away and renounces, and who renounces in some way forgive. All gifts you receive by her great works made with love, comes loaded with blessings for our Supreme Father. Who do wrong and regret, forgiveness toward him, and will be awarded!
Forgiveness begins the list of divine graces are granted when we repent of wrongdoing. Forgiveness heals, redeems, meet and renew; for many it becomes a word full of taboo, which complicates the embrace, and therefore implement it. The complexity of the word is not asking for forgiveness, but forgiveness, you asked a million times forgiveness.
Erroneously we confuse the term forgiveness, because we think that if we extend, we are agreeing with the person requesting it, or are we justified in any way; thinking that forgiveness is forgetting, and downplay what happened, without realizing that forgiveness is for us and not for that request.
Ask for forgiveness and forgive, they are the biggest tests you must face in life. Jesus showed us with his ability to tell the parable of the prodigal son. We find it hard to forgive, because in a way we like to live in the memory and become punishing; when punished ourselves. When that does not cost you forgive, the pain begins to grow, anger and rage, until it ends harden the heart.
If you have trouble forgiving, first give off all anger, pain and rage. Elevate your thoughts to the creator, and replace bitter for sweet moments that you lived with that person. Put your trust in God, who is all love and free their hardships extending forgiveness!
When we are facing a difficult situation wit our partners and we find something difficult to forget, perhaps some therapy may work wonders to avoid separations.