During the first three months of a love relationship, all the living experiences and feelings that start to flourish are unknown. These three months are full of happiness, we feel that we have found the perfect man, he treats us like princesses and you want to make many dreams come true by his side. As months goes by, happiness goes down, problems create distrust, and daily routine get us uninterested and turn off the magic between our partners.
Believe me, many times the main cause for the end of a relationship is infidelity, it kills confidence. In a large number of situations, is us women that have to make a huge effort to trust again in our beloved one, being capable of forgive and forgive everything just to maintain the relationship. That loss of magic and daily routine, are one of the biggest reason to end a relationship, because loosing this, we lose interest to keep fighting.
If you don’t feel interested and hopeless, you have the opportunity to revive that fire, how can you do it? The first step is talk to your partner. A relationship is conformed by two people, and this tip could be effective if both agree on it; this conversation should not hurt your partner, tell him the things that bother you, the simplest ones, like how messy he is and the hurtful things he says without thinking.
Listen clearly what your boyfriend or husband has to say, remember you are too a part of this, and consequently, one of the causes the relationship has died. After talking about the negative aspects in the relationship, is time to change to the positive ones, make him remember all those details he did that you loved, since a simple good morning kiss until the nice way to talk and look at you. Also those little details that may be little for him, made you feel important, like a simple text message with the expression “I love you”, and those gifts he gave you in special dates.
The next step to reactivate love is to do all the things talked previously. We are aware that, sometimes we don’t have time to date, however, use weekends to spend time together or at least a day every week. Go to the movies together, go out to dinner, and if you have time, take a trip together.
Being in a relationship is not easy, not only for the time we need to dedicate to it, but for the living conditions we have to learn and stand. You won’t regret if you practice these advices.
ALFA