Many times we start a relationship without knowing how it is going to progress, but we start it because everything in life is a lottery where we need take risks in order to see the results. There is no other way.
What we should know is that from the bad experiences we had in the past, one relationship is always different from another, and although there are signs of what will happen in a relationship, there is no guarantees.
With this guide we can have an idea of certain aspects that will give us the key to see where we stand, but we still need to know that there are many determining factors that can distort the results, because not all men and women are the same, and we should know that there is nothing as uncertain as love in life.
One of the most accurate sign that you are in a relationship with a good person is that in past relationships you knew that your partner could behave as a lout at anytime, but now this is about someone who helps you grow as a person and will never treat you like that. This is very common, since the most effective way of knowing who were are dealing with is by evaluating the way we are treated.
Additionally, you do not feel like a spy trying to investigate what he really meant between the lines of the messages he sends to you, because now you know that his actions and words constantly show what he feels for you. He is clear and does not send double meaning messages.
In the past it was a battle you wanted to win and make it work. It was exhausting. It was a superhuman effort to try to meet your expectations without disappointing him in order to keep the relationship. This is not only exhausting, but also a sign that the relationship is not in harmony, healthy, or stable.
You do not spend so much time with your friends trying to find out what it was all about that day you argued and he said this or that thing that made you think all night long. Many times we tell our friends about our emotional sorrows and spend all afternoon trying to understand why you said something that you did not really mean to say.
In the past you know that an argument meant that IT WAS OVER. Now you know that arguing is something normal in a relationship and this does not mean that you have to start looking for your friends to find another hunk.
If he does not answer your messages, you do not have to worry. Now you know that he is simply busy, not playing the “I don’t want to answer, or it is not important to me, or I will ignore her so she leaves me alone” game.
This and many other things you might have experienced in the past and now you see that you do not need to spend too much energy on, like asking him to prove that he loves you every day. What you live is already enough to understand that you have finally met the right person and now you do not have to see him as a prey you have to hunt, but as a partner I want to make happy and be happy with. Together. These, among other aspects, will determine that you are in a healthy relationship and that it is worth looking after it so it grows everyday, like a flower.
ALFA