Knowing how to control the air signs as well as the other elements is very important, considering that every element (fire, water, air and earth) has basic characteristics that distinguish them, and although some signs are more controlled than others, each one has its weaknesses that we must keep in mind when entering a friendship or love relationship. People of the air signs have characteristics of the air element that is positive, masculine and outgoing, and when they get angry, we must turn to some resources to handle them.
The air signs are Gemini, Libra and Aquarius; they are signs that have the gift of adapting to almost everything around them, being sociable and communicative; hence they frequently show interest in the human being and try to expand themselves through interaction with other people, which gives them basic intellectual abilities.
However, in love the air signs are usually very cerebral, and sometimes they have trouble letting themselves flow, since they spend their time making reasoning about everything that requires spontaneity in love field. Therefore, despite being communicative, when it comes to dealing with love relationships, they have problems expressing their emotions, showing instability and indecision. But, let’s talk about each of the signs separately and learn how to control these air signs:
Gemini: It is one of the most sociable air signs because it is ruled by Mercury, which gives it an avid desire to have multiple meetings, to experience interaction and communication through varied contacts for the simple desire to communicate and learn.
Gemini is very dynamic, mobile and available, but he often becomes evasive, elusive, so he usually takes time to face stable commitments, since he is afraid of ties. The influence of Mercury makes Gemini have a nervous and curious temperament before everything around him, so he is also endowed with an analytical and critical sense.
Now, the natives of Gemini can also get out of control and explode, become angry and show anger. Therefore, when Gemini explodes, the most advisable things is to keep quiet for him to let go of everything he has inside and so that he can express his emotions, which it is often difficult for him.
Usually, when Gemini is out of control, he says things that don’t make sense, but the important thing is that he expresses himself; and to control him it is advisable to let him talk and talk. In this way, you can control him, allow him to let off steam, if necessary, apologize and do something positive or he likes, whatever, take him his favourite dessert, make him some delicious coffee; you will realize that, suddenly, his anger will have passed and he will be doing something else, and his attitude will have turned 180 degrees, not to mention the full 360 degrees.
If we talk about Libra, which is ruled by Venus, we are talking about one of the air signs with a balanced and patient nature that tends to wait for the moment, before talking, playing or acting in certain circumstances.
Unlike Gemini, the people of Libra spontaneously express their emotions and passions, which gives them wonderful creativity and inventiveness. Libra is one of the air signs that love beauty and good things; it is even something bohemian, finding the good in each one, including his possible enemies, for which he is kind, sociable and with a very deep sense of aesthetics, thanks to his ruling planet Venus.
Nevertheless, when Libra gets angry and explodes, the best thing you can have is luck, because it is very difficult to make them angry, and if they have reached this point it is because you must have done something really serious that got him out of control. So, the best is to leave the place, leave him alone with his anger, and above all never try to correct him at the time of the conflict. Stay quiet, go to another place, and return after a while.
Finally, we have the last of the air signs, Aquarius, ruled by Uranus, which makes him original, singular, autonomous and independent; making him a lover of freedom, which he defends with great intelligence and in a very practical and fast way. The people of Aquarius in general have ideas that go ahead of others’, so they are characterized by getting ahead of the rest and that leads them to be misunderstood; but that does not take them away the desire to explore the new ways without fear, being free from all intellectual prejudice and interested in everything around him.
Now, how to control the anger of Aquarius is really difficult because they are rarely angry, and if they are, it happens very quickly since they control themselves, without great sacrifices from other people. However, with the people of the sign of Aquarius you have to be honest and admit mistakes, that’s enough for them to apologize and follow their path as if nothing.
But, if an Aquarius captures bad vibes in others, he rejects them away without much explanation, so if you really are interested in an Aquarian, do not be negative, imposing and authoritative, because he will surely fly, and very high.
To conclude, we remind you that these air signs could use manipulation as a way of keeping their ideals and attitudes because with this, they could gain authority, destroying what suffocates them, since they require to flow to be able to change and they turn to their great capacity for oratory and flattery to manipulate others.
ALFA