Have you ever had a blind date, or have you felt curiosity to get it? Well today we will describe the guidelines and recommendations that you should consider whether to plan a blind date.
Well, it should be exciting to meet a completely strange person, emotions come and go every second before the awaited day: How will it be? He will be attractive? I will like him? About what will we talk? Countless questions and doubts that will take over from you. Many people choose this way of dating or just have some fun. But the first thing to consider is that it is not good that the person is completely unknown, must have known him for a reasonable period of time, at least talking virtually, to have full confidence and security that you will avoid the danger, although this is not entirely reliable; you could try a double date; On the other hand if you like what you see, then go ahead
Now that you have the full confidence, it’s time to worry about making the meeting a pleasant and fun experience; here, you will find details about the steps you have to take: It is normal to feel nervous, therefore, when you come to your presentation, admit her nerves would be good topic to break the ice, because we both will be surely feeling the same. On the other hand, avoid touching topics such as politics or religion, this could bring discomfort, remember that not everyone thinks like you. Unless you are certain that your tastes match with of that other person, let topics flow naturally. Forget prejudices; when you accept a blind date should be clear that it can be anyone, of a different color from yours, tall or short height, can be fat or skinny, leave aside expectations; if that person decided to spend with you a few hours of his time, it’s worth trying; Give him a chance!
Furthermore, if even that person did not give you a positive first impression and do not have so much things in common, or the qualities you’d expect, it was an experience that did not work; remember the idea of a blind date is meeting a person who is suitable with you in order to decide whether to have a relationship or even a beautiful friendship. If the first impression in all aspects do not convince you, then just forget it. In another sense, the natural being and yourself is essential to give a good impression, also appear secure and confident can be attractive for many. Arrive on time is another crucial factor if you want to have another date with that person.
To conclude, and if everything went as favorable as expected, leaving you wanting a second date, say goodbye with style; let that essence so yours that makes the other person cannot resist to call you, and invite you to another meeting.
ALFA