If the one you like does not take the next step to consummate the relationship, don’t worry. Below is a brief manual to win your friend’s heart. Follow the instructions to formalize your relationship.
Before to start transforming this friendship into something more, you should measure how close or far are you from achieving it. Also if there is the possibility of losing his friendship if things don’t go as planned. Make a decision. It is clear, the future of your relationships is in your hands, and only you know the way. Think very well what you want, because although it is great fun to be accompanied by a person, you should also understand that a relationship takes commitment, where love, respect, and trust are essential.
The first step is to cool the relationship. Reduce his rights. Let him know that your world does not revolve around him; let him know that he is not the owner of your sighs, and if there is not something formal, you will leave him. Indifference hurts. Delete him from your agenda, and ignore him a few days, reject his invitations, do not answer his calls. That will cause his neurons work to bring you back.
Say goodbye to gifted kisses and caresses. There is a phrase that says “nobody know what they have until it’s gone”, and it is true. Every that he tries to kiss or touch you, move away. You should make him clear that you don’t use to intimate with friends. Maybe it bothers him, but he must understand that you are not one of the bunch.
If you feel insecure he will notice it, and the relationship will become fragile. Best, inject him some doubts. Active jealousy. Introduce him the most handsome of your friends, or tell him that you have a dozen suitors behind you. If he one day asks you out, resist the urge, and say that you already have plans. It will hurt, but it’s better to miss an appointment than losing his heart.
Integrate him into your universe. Rather than forget your own world, begins to share it with him. Introduce him your friends or family, take him to parties, and tell him your problems (not every day). Make him part of your life: know him, and let him to know you too.
Make him happy. Do your best to satisfy him, so he will think about how lucky he is to have you. Find out his dreams or hobbies, and without warning indulge his desires. Be honest and accept yourself. Forget to become in his ideal woman or changing to like him. Conquer his heart without masks, be smart. Try to look very cute, without going against your style. If he adores women who show the legs, but you hate to wear skirts, do not use it!
Converting your friend into the love of your life can be the most natural outcome for a caring and trusting friendship, but could also result in disaster. By following these tips, the task of transforming this friendship into a true relationship will be much easier.
ALFA