Violence against women has been the main cause of most female deaths per year and the only reason this happens is because the dangerous silence on the part of the victims. Female violence is not limited to physical aggression; this also includes verbal and psychological violence through constant insults and humiliations.
A relationship is unfair when it exceeds the respect in the moment when a man exercises command and control of the relationship, showing dominance over a woman; physically and verbally attacking her, considered to be superior and the woman assuming the role of submissive. Such relationships always walk a tightrope, in many cases causing death of the victim or the aggressor by retaliation.
In most cases, and when the woman finally realizes the risk to which she is exposed, is usually too late; as often is a result of the incessant blows, they died instantly or are prostrated in bed for a long term. The significant number of women, who bear a relationship to live with violence, is due precisely to fears about losing their lives and those of their families; it is a vicious cycle that eventually leads to the same tragic result.
In another sense, a woman supports this relationship by emotional dependency, low self-esteem, or “love”; taking her to justify the actions of his partner and lie when asked about the apparent violence to which she was subjected. Also, many of these women are silent by believing in the false promises of change by the perpetrator or by not having the support of someone who encourages them to report such abuse.
For these reasons, it is necessary to know well the person you want to have a stable relationship; know how this person acts in every aspect of his life and the treatment he gives to third parties, such as relatives and even with animals; because believe it or not, knowing each of these behaviors will help her decipher the nature of her partner. However, this may be on; since in many cases and according to testimonies of victims who have suffered violence in their relationship, ensure that your partner before marriage never showed signs of being abusive, it made evident the strategic façade took an ordinary man into an abusive one.
Dear friend, female violence is not a game; do not intend to increase the number of deaths, so, it’s time to talk! Do not remain silent because silence is the only witness to your suffering. Ask yourself, do I deserve this? The answer is no! everything that happens is in your hands.
ALFA