Deciding to travel and do not include your children, into opportunities can be a little unsure, surprising and even cold; for the simple fact that it is very common to always taking them into account when putting together a travel schedule. However, do not cease to be relevant the need to give us a space for recreation or simply determine that it is too risky to take them depending on the case. If your purpose is to allow yourself a few days to relax alone or with friends, you should not feel frustrated by not having them with you and escape alone to enjoy an exciting encounter changing your common environment.
Then, in order to plan and enjoy a trip without the kids, take appropriate measures to leave them at home in a safe and reliable way; therefore, it is essential organize yourselves before starting the adventure, searching for the right person to leave them. In addition to these suggestions
- First, you must be completely sure and decided to make the trip, either alone or with your partner, so it is appropriate that both of you think and internalize the idea, to avoid bad problems or back down at the end. If you have made the decision, you should keep in mind how long the trip will be.
- It is advisable to seek a type of activity that keeps children in complete distraction or occupation while you are gone. The recreational activities are a must because these help them to be fully animated, such as a holiday scheme or school by default, if they are still in school season.
- It is extremely important that the person you decide to leave your children be totally reliable to serve and take care of them. It should be someone pleasing to them, as it will be ideal, so the kids will very satisfied and gratified.
- You also need to plan with this person some strategies and dynamics to entertain the children, such as games, reading stories, walks in the park or the wonderful idea that they can participate in deciding the activity they wish to perform, obviously always under supervision.
- You must leave available to the person that take care of your children enough money equivalent to the time of your absence, to avoid any inconvenience that may arise; also drugs identified with all the indications, in case that happens a situation in which have to be used.
- Finally, is advantageous that you can always call and stay informed of everything happening at home while you are not around and even in the distance maintain a great communication link with your children.
Stay calm and confident that everything will be fine, it is important that before you go apply these recommendations, so you can feel safe and ready to enjoy your stay. Very good luck!
I did travel last year with my husband to Portugal, we left our boys with their aunt… they love her so it is no big deal, 2 weeks away, they probably enjoyed us being away for some time too, boys sometimes need some time away from parents…