DAUGHTER, HER FIRST TIME?

You are Going through the room of your 16 years old daughter and realize she is having a conversation with their best friend is not your intention to overhear but you do and note that they are talking about boys and of those strange sensations that feel when kissing them. Dear Mother now is the long awaited day, time to talk to your daughter of her first time.

You may feel a little nervous, and some discomfort, because this is a new field for you and asks yourself, how time went so fast? And then realizes that this is a reality. For this reason, today we bring you some recommendations on how to guide your children on the subject of sex without any taboos.

To begin, you need to talk to your children about sex from the moment they begin to show some maturity, when the appropriate time comes, they will feel confident enough to express their doubts so be prepared. You must wait for the right moment take a chance when somebody is talking about it, whether on television, something that has happened in school, some pregnant classmate, this will be your perfect excuse.

When talking with your child, try not to lecture him, try to make them feel so safe with you so they can peacefully express their concerns, show confidence, and listen well to give appropriate responses. If on the other hand, the subject of sex has never been touched among you, may happen that when you approach, your child feels uncomfortable and rejects it, prepare for it. Remember, as the theme will flow and eventually emerge naturally making communication more pleasant between you two.

If you have already overcome these first steps, it’s time to face the hard part. When is the right time to have sex? You should know that there is no right age for this and there will be many people and media encouraging your child to do so; most importantly, make them feel confident, explain that is a decision that they should take only when they feel truly prepared, after analyzing the risks that this brings, they should not let their thinking change because of pressure from others and that they should ask themselves why really want to do it? Emphasize that is a decision once taken, there will be no turning back. Also remind them what people really want, always respect their decisions and don’t pressure them to do something that they are not sure of.

After this, notify the best methods of safe sex, advise them and encourage the use of protection avoiding STDs by using condoms, or accompanying your daughter to see a specialist doctor so that he can help guide you with the best methods according to your case.

Talk to your children wisely and timely. Sex is healthy and natural however, is a task that up to you to deal. Do not postpone the things you can do today!