Can several months have passed and you cannot get him out of your head? Do you think all day about him and what you went through together? You need to stop suffering with an image of the past and recover once and for all. Being remember and fanning the inner feeling that remains in you, it would be not good, on the contrary, it is damaging and condemn you.
But, you need to place your hand and be realistic, no matter who is at fault, or how things have happened, the point is that that person is no longer in his life.
You can not spend your life frustrated and locked up in a world of sorrow and condemnation. Very often, when a woman is in a situation like this, it’s normal that always comes thoughts of guilt, that make you feel and think that was your fault when somehow maybe it was not.
However, being constantly think about him, perhaps because he struck her soul is still maintained hurt, it only hurts you. Maybe these thoughts are frequent because basically you want to get him again, either to remedy the problems you had or to restore what he did.
If you want to give back everything he did, is not a good plan; On the contrary, it will fuel more wound and will not achieve remove it from your head, nor bring it to his side again, which would be quite humiliating.
Therefore, you should start blocking their minds to possible thoughts come, you must go rejecting them; for this, it’s good to write down on a piece of the person’s name and place in a list all the mistakes and problems that affected him, as well, go and pondered as you start typing. You need to be aware that that person no longer worth to be with you, because it was not ideal.
Once you have completed the list, think about all thoughts and the consequences that could drag if you following him. Then break and throw the paper. That will help cognitively to give the signal to his memory that already was.
Nor talk more about that, and avoid coincide with people who can speak or ask him, as well as not keep things to be remembered. It is best to break them and throw them away.
Keep in mind that you are a special person. Take the error and failure as a learning experience, to undertake new challenges and blessings.
Get out there and dare to meet new people, always stay in constant activity, realize that around there are wonderful things and beings that very well may enjoy and have fun.
That is so accurate, take the experience and grow strong. Just try to learn from our mistakes.