Are you getting jealousy? It is a very clear question, although in many opportunities, it costs us so answer. Perhaps many would respond with a: “sometimes”, without really wanting to be honest and say that “Yes”. Let me tell you that even though in many cases is diverted the sincere response, is normal accept that almost all human beings feel or have felt jealousy some time. At some point went through a situation in which leaves afloat the jealousy.
Jealousy are products of the insecurity. Typically are manifested in anguish and concern, getting disturb, and up cauterize the mind. Are considered as a “normal” feeling, although when they are very exaggerated, are taken with concern, and even treated by specialists.
The be jealous of someone is a product of believe that perhaps it will be removed and is no longer with him. Sometimes, you may feel jealous when the person we love is surrounded by other people, and the jealousy is triggered when these are women; but, be very careful with this, because you can get to believe that your partner might be being unfaithful, even when it is not even doing wrong things.
Only that you give place to the jealousy, you will see and feel things that are not. When you let to be dominated by them, you will feel suspicion, states of anxiety, worry, doubt and depression. But pay attention, because we offer you some recommendations to self-controlling in a jealous rage.
The best thing you can do is to breathe deep, take water and think about the positive side of things. If you are in the case where your partner is talking with another woman, take it very normal, perhaps she is helping to solve something that you don’t know, and you will know later (in the most prudent and wise way).
Do not reclaim to your partner things you have not checked or does not have the certainty that they are as well; because, although it does not create, jealousy cause people to see, think and even believing things that aren’t true. Therefore, always let him talk, and then you opine.
Do not check or search in his cell phone as if you were sure that your partner is cheating. You cannot anticipate possible things that you’re not sure to be like this. It is important to always communicate and make yourself understood very well; a misunderstanding or something that has been erroneously believed, will affect both to you like your relationship.
Pay attention to the attitude of your partner when he’s talking to some women. Even though she may be very flirty, this does not mean that he’s ingratiating with her acts, or she is doing with bad intentions. Consider that there are women who are very friendly and flirty, and that for them, there is nothing wrong with expressing affection and attention toward someone.
It is recommended that you are sure of yourself, and knows who you are to your partner, and what place you occupy in his life. The bases of any relationship are trust and communication, farm them day in and day out, to be dam each time less than jealousy. Good luck!
it is a dangerous road to be jealous of our partners. It is important to be communicative at all times and avoiding situations that might jeopardize our own well-being.