Sometimes other people’s comments create a suggestion of how to behave on the first date especially if you create the possibility for a second date after the first kiss. Rejecting or accepting it is often controversial, though.
Usually, discussing about religion, philosophy, politics, science, sports and even entertainment, is often controversial. It could be considered as taboo by certain people. Interpersonal relationships are the same, and unless a group can deal with the issue from a common perspective, one can find people who do not interpret such an “unseemly” approach as a positive thing to do on the first date.
In any case, prejudice is a negative factor against it and there is also the question about what would happen if you kissed on the first date. You could get many answers. However, only two would be viable or close to reality. One: a girl could be disappointed and refuse kissing the guy, because she thinks he would think she’s “too easy” or, 2: the guy understands the circumstances of our era, the 21st century, and will be ready for the second date.
During the first date, uncertainty flutters inside of us for endless minutes while we are in the restaurant, café or bar with that special person. At the same time, he plays the game of sending the correct signals in order to move into that first kiss with confidence, although he might do it wrong.
According to a study by the University of Albright in the United States, 59% of men claim not to maintain a serious relationship if the first kiss is not good enough. For that reason, if there is a lot of chemistry between you and that ideal partner, there are more chances for a second date.
You must remember that kissing should be an experience worth remembering and repeating. Among the things you should do is to take some mint candies with you, for a fresh and pleasant breath. Do not wait until you say goodbye to kiss, be spontaneous and take advantage of the moments you are both relaxed to do so.
When you do, you must keep in mind that there must be a delicate, intense and passionate exchange that will fascinate you. Without fear, approach her body slowly, put your hands behind her neck or head, gently nibble her lower lip, get your face closer to hers and play the cyclops of chapter seven of “Hopscotch”; romantic novel by Julio Cortázar.
The first date defines everything, it will determine whether you will go out with that person again or not. Therefore, use the first date to gather the most information from your future partner or why not, husband. All love stories begin with a first date.
It is scientifically proven that kissing passionately causes the release of adrenaline, increases heart rate, blood pressure and blood glucose level. Let the doctor prescribe relaxing methods to your partner and just wait for a call for that second date.
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